Every woman has the exact love life she wants.
This is a toughie. In many ways it's true. I was married for 21 years and have been divorced for almost 3 and in those short 3 years of dating for the most part I did CHOOSE to not be committed to anyone. I didn't date more than one man at a time but I have dated a lot of them--serial monogamy at it's best! And while I'm going through a stage in my life where I'm choosing not to date at all, I think when I'm ready to begin dating again, I will be dating for the express purpose of finding a lifelong partner again.
I have, however, witnessed friends who have wanted to be committed and the ones they wanted to be committed to did not want that. So some women do not get the exact love life they want. Or maybe they just don't get it in that one particular person. But I do think it's true that you get what you settle for.
For me, from now on, my heart will be so hidden in Christ that any man who wants to be with me will have to seek Him first to find it! (paraphrased from Maya Angelou) I am SO in love with my Savior!
And that is the EXACT love life that I want!
Love your honesty and where you have hidden your heart :) God is the perfect one to guard it and tap you on the shoulder when he reveals your Mr. Wonderful.
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