Wednesday, January 18, 2017

January blog challenge--Favorite Songs

I love this list topic because there is NOTHING like music to affect one's mood! There is such power in listening to music. It can lift your spirits. It can take you back to a place and time or invoke a memory. It's power is like nothing else.

My taste in music is very diverse and I tend to go through phases with it.  I like pop/hip hop, alternative/hard rock, classic rock,  Christian, The Beatles and other similar 60's music, Fleetwood Mac (I consider them a whole different genre than classic rock), 80's, hair bands (Def Leppard being my favorite), R&B, and even a little country.

There are times, also, that I'll like a song and the radio stations will run it into the ground so much that I get sick of it!

So a few of my faves are:
  1. Photograph, Def Leppard (my all time fave--takes me back to when I was 14. Great year, great memories!)
  2.  I'll Be Around, The Spinners
  3. Thunderstruck, ACDC
  4. Sunday Morning, Maroon 5
  5. Let's Stay Togeter, Al Green
  6. Dixieland Delight, Alabama
  7. My Life, Billy Joel
  8. In My Life, The Beatles
  9. Hate Me, Blue October
  10. Run to You, Bryan Adams
  11. Closer, The Chainsmokers
  12. One, Creed
  13. Torn, Creed
  14. Auld Lang Syne, Dan Fogelberg
  15. White Flag, Dido
  16. Dreams, Fleetwood Mac
  17. Hold Me, Fleetwood Mac
  18. Go Your Own Way, Fleetwood Mac
  19. Carry On, Fun.
  20. Slide, Goo Goo Dolls
  21. I Am, Mark Schultz
  22. Broken and Beautiful, Mark Schultz
  23. I Don't Want This Night to End, Luke Bryan
  24. Kiss Tomorrow Goodbye, Luke Bryan
  25. Sweet Home Alabama, Lynard Skynard
  26. Misery, Maroon 5
  27. Get It On Tonight, Montel Jordan
  28. Photograph, Nickelback
  29. Don't Speak, No Doubt
  30. Your Love, The Outfield
  31. Place of Freedom, Highlands Worship
  32. Won't Back Down, Tom Petty
  33. Better Than Me, Hinder
  34. Blackbird, The Beatles
  35. And I Love Her, The Beatles
  36. Ticket to Ride, The Beatles
  37. Michelle, The Beatles (obviously)
  38. Penny Lane, The Beatles
  39. To Sir, With Love, Lulu
  40. Downtown, Petula Clark
  41. Sound of Silence, Simon & Garfunkel
  42. The Time of Your Life, Greenday
  43. Yea Alabama (haha Roll Tide)
  44. Rammer Jammer (haha Roll Tide)
  45. You Can Do It, Ice Cube
  46. Big Poppa, Biggie Smalls
  47. New York, Alicia Keyes
  48. Margaritaville, Jimmy Buffet
  49. Don't Stop Believing, Journey
  50. Black Water, Doobie Brothers

Tuesday, January 17, 2017

January blog challenge--List of Compliments

List of compliments--some that I enjoy hearing and some that I enjoy saying:


  • You always seem so happy.
  • Your skin is beautiful.
  • You have helped me so much.
  • You are a blessing.
  • Your hair is amazing--thick and smooth.
  • Your dogs are the cutest.
  • Your kids are so awesome.
  • You raised a great son.
  • Your parents are the best.
  • Your family is a hoot.
  • Your home is lovely--warm and cozy. (maybe that's code for tiny! lol)
  • You always seem to have a good time no matter what.
  • Your spiritual gift is definitely mercy.
  • Your nails (or toes) are cute.
  • Your boobs are awesome--still perky! (lol)
  • You tan easy.
  • You are good with kids.
  • I love how you mother my grandson.
  • I'm so glad you CHOSE to be my dad.
  • Girl, I wish I can shake it like you do! (obviously that was something I SAID)
  • You guys are great dance leaders.
  • You look great today.
  • I love your outfit.
  • You're a fabulous kisser.
  • I'm so proud of you.

Monday, January 16, 2017

January blog challenge--Favorite 5 minute activities

Favorite 5 minute activities? Hmm...this one may be a tad more difficult because I can't think of many activities that only take 5 minutes! Especially not any that can be mentioned on a PG rated blog! :) But I'll give it a try!


  • Petting my pups (hello? They're precious!)
  • a hot shower (if I don't shave my legs, it doesn't take that long)
  • brushing my teeth (that may sound crazy but I love clean teeth)
  • playing Pacman (I'm old school and it usually doesn't take me long to lose)
  • Prayer (sometimes just having a quick conversation with God can change your entire perspective)
  • Kissing (is that PG enough?)

Sunday, January 15, 2017

January blog challenge--Simple Pleasures!

Things are just a few things that are simple pleasures for me (in no particular order of importance):

  • coffee! (no other words needed)
  • watching reruns of Sex & the City (I love the talking points, am fascinated by the friendships of the four girls and looking back at the fashion and things past (like an answering machine!) is amusing.
  • my dogs (they are the only things in the world that love me unconditionally besides Jesus)
  • a nice fire (relaxing)
  • good conversations with amazing people (I love finding out what others' opinions are, as long as they aren't pushy about them, what makes them "tick", their experiences, etc.)
  • pedicures (no other words needed)
  • a good backrub (no other words needed)
  • looking at old pictures (memories)
  • listening to great music (therapeutic)
  • pop tarts (I know they are unhealthy but they were one of the first things I was able to taste post-cancer so I sorta became addicted. I'm trying to kick the habit but oh...the taste. Especially frosted strawberry!)
  • sand in my toes (I'm a beach bum, what can I say?)
  • riding in a convertible (there's just something about the wind and the sun together on my skin)
  • the smell of coconut (intoxicating)
  • the smell of a baby (also intoxicating)
  • the smell of puppy breath (I can't explain it, I just love puppy breath! Let's be clear--puppies, not adult dogs. Mady's breath is terrible!)
  • a man that kisses good (they are a lot rarer than you think)

January blog challenge--more thoughts about lists!

I am a list person. I have an app on my phone called "Wunderlist". Before I got the app I had a notebook that I would keep lists in. Right now, Wunderlist contains 20 lists:


  • To Do Today
  • To Do Eventually
  • Walmart-Grocery store
  • Shopping (because that's different lol)
  • Stuff to Pay
  • Things to crochet
  • Restaurants to try
  • Movies to see
  • Menu for the week (haven't used this in a while)
  • Things to look for at the thrift store
  • Clothes I want
  • Travel plans 2017
  • Goals
  • Places to apply for employment
  • Organizations I want to give money to
  • Bills to pay next payday
  • Things I want to buy
  • Clean-ting to do
  • Things I need
  • Things to get at the Dollar Store
Yes, I realize I'm weird and probably some of these lists could be consolidated and/or eliminated! Anyway, this should be a fun and easy blog for me!

Saturday, January 14, 2017

January blog challenge

I found this on Pinterest and looked like one I haven't done before. It also looked pretty simple so I thought it would be a good place to start to resume writing again. I think it's also good for trying to focus on positive things during these next days while we're doing the 21 Days of Prayer and Fasting.


List Ideas to Lift Your Mood

  • Simple pleasures in life
  • Favorite 5 minute Activities
  • List of Compliments
  • Favorite Songs
  • Favorite Foods and Drinks
  • Motivational Quotes
  • Best Moments in Life
  • Things I'm Most Thankful For
  • Place with Fond Memories
  • Daily Affirmations
  • Prayer ListList of Jokes
  • Funny Doodles
  • Favorite Flowers
  • Favorite Gifts I've Received
  • Little Moments You loved
  • Favorite Items in Your Home
  • Mistakes That Shaped You
  • The Best Thing Abut Each Season
  • Faovrite People to Call for Mood Lift
  • List of Things you Love About Your Significant Other
Honestly, I can't see myself doing the funny doodles one. I don't doodle. Unless I come across some online. But maybe I could share some of my favorite memes on that day. We'll see!


Update and recommitment

It's been awhile since I've updated, as anyone can see. Facebook is just so much easier. But it's also getting annoying. Way too many political posts, drama, invitations to online parties for women to sell crap I don't need or want and then there are the ads! Need I say more?

Anyhoo...

Brooke graduated high school and then moved to Montevallo in the Fall to begin classes. She's doing very well and seems to be having a good time. She pledged Alpha Gamma Delta and has been busy with all the sorority activies and other things associated with college life.

Dylan got a new puppy and is looking for a new apartment. He also bought himself a project truck.

Kayti is still attending Jeff State and works at Domino's.

I have a new niece, Caroline Jade. I bought a bike and a kayak. I started taking ballroom dance lessons and resumed DanceFit classes. I have sadly put back on most of the weight I lost during cancer but I guess I enjoyed doing it! I am still so very thankful to be able to taste and swallow again!

I am now in my last semester of grad school (Praise the Lord!) and am unemployed! I was downsized in September and haven't been able to find anything new yet. I have been on a few interviews but just haven't found the right position. I want to go back into HR but having been out of it for so long has hurt. Other positions don't seem to fit because I think the manager realizes that once I get my MBA I probably won't stick around long if I were to ever be offered more money. They would be correct.

I always said that when babygirl graduated high school I would move to the beach and I have applied for a few jobs down there. But alas, I am still in Birmingham. God has been good, providing for my needs so far. But I desperately need employment!

I have become good friends with one of my neighbors and now I hate to leave her behind if I were to move. And of course, I'd hate to be farther away from my own family. But I'm thinking about maybe transitioning into my dream by way of Alabaster/Pelham. It wouldn't be too far from everyone and closer to babygirl. I just need a change. This apartment, though it has become home in the last 5 years, has issues. Last month, the plumbing flooded the living room and all the carpet had to be replaced. It also has electrical issues, needs new upstairs carpet and a few other cosmetic things. I did what I could last year and it looks much better. But I'm not putting a lot of my own money into a place that I don't own.

I have started dating again also. He's someone I met when I was still working at the law office. However, I don't date anyone I work with. When I became unemployed, we became friends on social media, started talking and went out. It kind of grew (a little) from there. It's only been a few months so I guess we'll see where it goes.

I've also started serving the homeless again but Silver Linings is no more so now I'm with a group called Hope for the Homeless. I love the leaders. They have such a heart for my downtown friends.

I also resumed serving on the Events team at church. Church is currently in the middle of the 21 Days of Prayer and Fasting. I'm doing a Daniel fast again and so far so good. I slipped last night when my neighbor friend and I decided to treat ourselves to Waffle House and talk! But I'm back on track today.

I am also pledging to resume writing. I had hoped to attend the Writer's Guild meeting today at the Clay Library but babygirl wanted to come home for the weekend and since the SUV (Steve) is currently down, I have the mustang (Miranda) and so I had to go pick her up. No big deal. I have lots of prompts and ideas in my head to get me back on track with writing. I just have to commit to do it. So this is me...recommitting.


And now you've been updated!

Blessings!